THE FREQUENCY OF LOVE

Well, here we are in February. Valentine’s Day is just around the corner. I have often wondered why this holiday brings up so much emotion. Single people are saddened by the fact they do not have a “special someone” to celebrate with on this day. People in relationships are hoping their significant other remembers the day and does something special for them. Others are upset that the challenges in the current relationship will color the tone of this special day.

My big question is why does there have to be a day to celebrate love? Why wouldn’t we want to express love every day?

Love means to be deeply committed and connected to someone or something. From the scientific point of view, love is a powerful and permanent neurological condition. Love is chemistry and it’s not something you can necessarily control. It is something, when nurtured, deepens and creates bonds. We experience a deep sense of care and commitment.

The ancient Greeks used seven words to define the different states of love we can experience:

1. Storage: natural affection
2. Philia: friendship
3. Eros: sexual and erotica
4. Agape: unconditional, divine love
5. Ludus: flirting
6. Pragma: committed, married love
7. Philautia: self-love

Love for me is a frequency that affects our lives, environments and relationships. I really want to invite us to have a conversation about radiating the frequency of love in every aspect of life.

I want to be honest here. Relationships have been a path of discovery for me. Not just love relationships. Relationships with family, friends, my children and lovers. Often times, I struggled to stay open and connected. What I learned is that I was the common denominator in every challenge. I wanted, desperately, to be seen, loved, honored and respected. AND, I had a lot of expectations about how that was to look. That was my first mistake. Love is inherently free. It cannot be bought, sold, or traded.

I have always been a romantic and thought my soul mate would magically appear. It never dawned on me that all of my relationships were mirrors of my own consciousness and I could not create loving relationships until “I was the love I was seeking.’ I finally got to this question. How can you truly recognize and experience love if you are not radiating it?

Did you know that 72% of people believe in love at first sight. Really? How can you truly love someone by seeing them across a room? That first look, from my perspective is energy and chemistry. It can be powerful, but to grow it must be cherished. Without a willingness to take a deep dive into yourself and stand in the “fire” with someone true love cannot exist and thrive.

I was recently meditating, and the words love frequency dropped in. I decided to look it up and found, there is such a thing. The “love frequency,” is identified as sound at 528 Hz. It’s part of a set of frequencies used by Gregorian monks and heralded for their healing properties. The 528 Hz Solfeggio Frequency, the love frequency, is thought to resonate at the core of everything; connecting our heart, our spiritual nature, and the divine harmony.

So, how do we get to the place where our energy transmits love? Here are few thoughts:

ACTIVATING THE LOVE FREQUENCY

1. Become conscious of your thoughts.
   Everything you think is seed in the universe and impacts your energy field.
2. Name it! What do you want?
   Make your intention clear (write it, meditate on it, create affirmations of love, create a vision board of love as your life, visualize it.
3. Become the Feeling/presence?
   Love Yourself and become the dream person you want to attract. Identify limiting beliefs and do the work to dismantle them. Dress the way you would for a date with the love of your life.
4. Let go of the outcome. Trust the universe and activate patience. Your timeline is not necessarily the timeline of the universe. No one has ever been truly successful at love by forcing. Once you plant the seeds activate faith and then stand in an expectancy of good.
5. Practice Gratitude for what you have now.
   Can you pause and look around? There are blessings galore. Take some time to give thanks and honor what you have already been given. Take care of you, your home, your pets, your family by showing how grateful you are in this moment. The universe will respond by giving you more.

This is an invitation to join me in expanding the “love frequency” on this planet. If each one of us was vibrating at 528 Hz, love would be the norm. Every single day would be cause for us to celebrate connecting in and as the heart.

Today, I hold you in my heart with love!!!!!!

Much love and Light,

Cynthia